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awed by what you knowIf you are new in China, you may find it difficult to comprehend a commond line of reasoning there.   

The reasoning goes like this:  Everything can be right.  And yet, everything that is right is not completely right.

And you are left to figure out what exactly has been said.

While the way of reasoning is part of the Chinese culture, it can also be seen as a wisdom that will help you to truly understand the order of the universe.

Since we are limited by our knowledge and senses, whatever we think is right can be right — and for the same token, can be wrong.  Similarly, what we see it to be right cannot be completely right.

Only when we are broad minded enough to tolerate chaos and ambiguity, that we are ready to be dazzled and awed — by what we know and we do not know. 

“ Tao is intangible and evasive,
Although intangible and evasive, in it there is form;
Although evasive and intangible, in it there is shape.
Although obscure and dark, in it there is vitality;
Its vitality is very genuine.
Within it we can find order.”              -  Tao Te Ching 21 

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Why many people can’t make decision, even about the most insignificant things in life?

They are not sure what they should eat for lunch and wear for the party; not to mention how they should react when their bosses ask them to comment on something.

What is keeping them from making a decision?

Little do they know, it could be their desire.

When they think of eating Italian pasta, they miss the steak.  When they are about to put on their jeans, they miss their skirts.

The problem is our desire is endless.  And if you keep thinking about the many things your want, no decision can ever be made.

Instead, find out the best options available, before entertaining your desire.  You’ll find decision-making is not exactly a hassle.

Learn from Lao Tze:

Freed from desire, you can see the hidden mystery.
By having desire, you can only see what is visibly real.
(Chapter 1)

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